The Know-How

One of our members has shared a powerful and honest blog about living with a ReSPECT form while supporting her husband through dementia and serious illness. She reflects on how the form evolved over time, what she learned through real emergencies, and how it helped ensure her husband’s wishes were respected. If you are thinking about advance care planning, or supporting someone who is, we hope this lived experience will be helpful.

We’ve worked with Autumna, a free national advice service, to share practical guidance on when a care home might be the right step. From recognising signs to exploring support options, this guest blog is designed to help you feel more informed and confident in your decisions.

A Letter of Wishes is a simple, personal note that sits alongside your Will. It’s not legally binding, but it can explain decisions, share practical guidance, and offer comfort to the people left behind. In this Know-How article, we look at what to include, why it matters, and how to get started.

This short guide explains what probate is, who needs it, and how to apply. We walk you through the process step-by-step, including where to get help and which forms you’ll need.

Applying for Attendance Allowance or a Blue Badge? A Summary Care Record from your GP surgery can save time, reduce stress and provide the official medical evidence you need. This simple guide walks you through how to request one, including a ready-to-use email template and tips if you’re helping someone else.

Leaving hospital can be overwhelming, especially if you're far from home or need extra support. This guide explains how the Out of County Hospital Team and Hospital Discharge Funding can help, what your rights are under the Care Act, and how to make sure your return home is safe, supported, and in your control.

Written by our CEO, Lucy Buck, this personal story shares how bringing in Personal Assistants transformed her family’s experience of caring for her mum with dementia, helping her stay active, independent and connected while giving the family vital support and rest.

What is this and how can it help me? If you care for someone who is living with dementia and you receive an attendance allowance you can...