Like many of you reading this, I help Mum shower and get changed in the morning. Every day I have a choice. I can save time and do it myself (and in the process erode her independence) or wait patiently. Unfortunately, I’m not someone blessed with an abundance of patience but today I discovered a #carerlifehack I wanted to share with you. I realised that whilst I was waiting for Mum to pull up her tights I had a choice to make. I could stand there and get frustrated or spend